it's part of a lot of kinks (this is a thread about a device that specifically stops someone from doing something they want to do). that's why communication is so important in those spaces. our kinks are a product of our culture, and our culture is totally fucked. so a lot of kinks involve fantasies of occluding control, which can make consent a little messy. which is why you communicate before during and after, because it IS important.
it's part of a lot of kinks (this is a thread about a device that specifically stops someone from doing something they want to do). that's why communication is so important in those spaces. our kinks are a product of our culture, and our culture is totally fucked. so a lot of kinks involve fantasies of occluding control, which can make consent a little messy. which is why you communicate before during and after, because it IS important.