Nah, fetlife is kind of garbage for poly people (I think at least). In my conversations with other poly people about fetlife it's maybe a little too specifically hookup-y and usually the wrong kind? At least the folks I've talked to really don't like using fetlife and never get good relationships out of it. I haven't ever needed to try it although I use...basically all the others!
I think folks lump actual "poly" in with other forms of ENM, and even then, there's lots of variety within poly. I'm kitchen table poly, so basically my partner and my girlfriend and my partner's partner and my girlfriend's husband and I are all friends and hang out, but we don't really have like...cross relationships. My partner doesn't sleep with my girlfriend, for instance. I think for some poly people fetlife could work if they just want to get their fuck on!
OH, and, I realized AFTER DOING THE WHOLE POST that you probably mean that's where all the conservative poly people hang out. So guess that makes sense why everyone I know hates it. Oops!
have u ever been on fetlife lol
Nah, fetlife is kind of garbage for poly people (I think at least). In my conversations with other poly people about fetlife it's maybe a little too specifically hookup-y and usually the wrong kind? At least the folks I've talked to really don't like using fetlife and never get good relationships out of it. I haven't ever needed to try it although I use...basically all the others!
I think folks lump actual "poly" in with other forms of ENM, and even then, there's lots of variety within poly. I'm kitchen table poly, so basically my partner and my girlfriend and my partner's partner and my girlfriend's husband and I are all friends and hang out, but we don't really have like...cross relationships. My partner doesn't sleep with my girlfriend, for instance. I think for some poly people fetlife could work if they just want to get their fuck on!
OH, and, I realized AFTER DOING THE WHOLE POST that you probably mean that's where all the conservative poly people hang out. So guess that makes sense why everyone I know hates it. Oops!