We are both lucky and cursed but there are whole industries about making people appear more feminine. Wear a wig. Millions of women do for many reasons and they are not less feminine for it so why should you be? Make up can cover up a whole lot of old and ugly but age is nothing to be ashamed of embrace your crone she is just as feminine as your maiden. I look like a rugby player in a dress and wig with clown paint on when I am doing my enby thing but I feel like Aphrodite herself and it fills my heart with happiness. So if it's something you genuinely want to express about your self do it and tell all that societial brainwashing in your head to fuck off. Because the cursed side of the beauty industry is it has literally sold us an impossible fiction for even the most natural of beauties to live up too.