Also I just gotta say as a gay dude that I didn't totally see what the moral outrage was over porn and then I saw what the straight people are doing and Jesus Christ it's fucked up. I'm never shocked now when I hear a former performer complain about a lack of safety, respect, or consent on set. Gay stuff has its massive problems too but holy fuck it's like a sexual assault factory on the straight side.
Sadly, there is no ethical cumsumption under capitalism
srs: Yea the industry is fucked up. But there are ethical porn production companies out there like Bellessa, etc
Bellessa is good. Even though it's founded as a porn site catering to women (and I'm a straight cis male) I prefer it immensely over the other alternatives. It removes a lot of the gross seedy-ness that pervades other porn sites, and seems to handle the business with some class.
I can't really think of any on the gay side except for some of the really small amateur ones