Also I just gotta say as a gay dude that I didn't totally see what the moral outrage was over porn and then I saw what the straight people are doing and Jesus Christ it's fucked up. I'm never shocked now when I hear a former performer complain about a lack of safety, respect, or consent on set. Gay stuff has its massive problems too but holy fuck it's like a sexual assault factory on the straight side.
Yeah, I find a hell of a lot of porn- esp. straight porn, incredibly disturbing. I want porn which isn't produced in such a deeply fucked up and exploitative industry, but I I would say that about any product. No ethical consumption right, but particularly a lot of porn. But a secondary problem I have is what is portrayed seems incredibly fucked up often, pushing really toxic notions of beauty standards and gender roles, but this problem seems more embedded in our broader societal understandings of these concepts, and thus capitalism etc. Idk what my point is exactly, butt I just want to their that out there