What’s the appeal of that podcast again?

  • _else [she/her,they/them]
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    4 years ago

    just saw it, and im not 'trying to spark' anything, you complimented my artistic ability, and it's something I have a lot of insecurity about and like... i really treasure those kinds of praise. I was thanking you, asshole.

    this is why I don't accept fucking compliments, fucking shit.

    • RedArmor [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      It was a sarcastic remark to you and others about framing me as a sexist. The context of the comment is everything.

      Now I’m an asshole for saying I don’t want another struggle started? How am I not supposed to read yours as sarcastic and trying to instigate something with a 12 hour later reply after everyone has moved on?

      No one told you to not accept compliments. Fucking hell. Literally victimizing yourself at this point.

      • _else [she/her,they/them]
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        4 years ago

        so now you're shitting on my ability to paint. wonderful. thanks. that was fucking necessary. I literally just told you im fucking insecure about this shit. what the fuck is wrong with you?

        YOU GAVE ME A COMPLIMENT AND THEN SHIT ON ME WHEN I ACCEPTED IT EARNESTLY what the fuck else am I supposed to do to protect myself from that shit emotionally? you didn't just tell me, you SHOWED me, which, from my old lit classes, I seem to remember is MUCH FUCKING STRONGER.

        go fuck yourself and your gaslighting bullshit.

        • RedArmor [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          What the fuck?

          Are you okay, comrade? Like sincerely, is everything alright?

          • _else [she/her,they/them]
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            4 years ago

            fuck you don't call me comrade after that shit. fucking scroll the fuck up and take responsibility for your shitty behavior. I'm upset BECAUSE OF YOU AND YOUR ACTIONS AND YOUR WORDS and you tricking me into accepting a compliment about a thing im super insecure about, then telling me im an idiot for doing so. go fuck yourself you delusional proto-reactionary piece of shit.

            • RedArmor [he/him]
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              4 years ago

              I didn’t trick you into accepting anything.

              Your replied to a comment from 12 hours ago that was a sarcastic remark regarding the framing of me being a sexist due to disagreements with other comrades about the nature of their criticisms. (Not the criticism itself, but about the time/place for defending it which I was told was tone policing.)

              I never mentioned anything about your paintings. I never said you were a bad artist or that you should quit. I literally was saying you are taking a comment from half a day ago out of context. Then when I say what I meant by that comment during the time, you tell me I’m an asshole and to fuck myself because I’m actually insulting you, and not complimenting you?

              • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                4 years ago

                you literally did! you said I had painted a great picture of you as a sexist asshole!

                and then you took it back when I accepted!

                you fucking lying piece of shit gaslighting monster! there's a fucking log, archive.org has records, and I took screenshots because I was so proud of someone saying I was a good painter. I just assumed I'd broken out the paints while I was in the drugs. ITS PROVABLE don't even try to edit this shit.

                • RedArmor [he/him]
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                  4 years ago

                  Yes. Figuratively painting a picture of me as a sexist online. On the internet. Not a physical painting of me being a sexist?

                  Like come on lol what is this now? You do not actually believe I was complimenting your personal hobby of painting when we were in a heated discussion of misogyny, sexism, vocal fry, and Red Scare.

                  The context is everything. As I have said. You can check archive.org for what I said about it even.

                  • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                    4 years ago

                    hey, wow, good dodge you lying gaslighting emotionally abusive piece of shit, but I have links and screenshots and I will always know the truth. fuck you you reactionary fucking shit scanner.

                    im so sorry for believing somebody could actually like my art, I should have fucking known better, is that what you're fucking saying? I should BE FUCKING SORRY for ever believing that someone thought I made pretty lines or had good use of color in a limited palette?

                    eat. every. possible. dick.