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  • Grace [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    I don't have sexual attraction at all, but when I was younger and before my abuse, I would probably agree that there needs to be more presence of it or something. But personally I would keep sexual and socialist life divided, many leftist spaces become destroyed due to rampant power balances that lead to sex abuse and manipulation. Its happened and I've witnessed it happen. When I used to run a leftist space, the mods were sex pests and it led to rapid destruction and isolation in the community, making many feel uncomfortable. I feel more safe in places with no sex discussion whatsoever, but all left spaces are different. If this becomes a place where sex pests are welcome and encouraged, then i'll migrate to lemmygrad. I dont care one way or another.

      • Grace [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        its been a rather vague term, but my definition is an individual who preys upon mentally weak people with sexual behavior. Usually digitally too, but I guess it could happen in person. I dont know if my abuser was a sex pest or not, but he was definitely filth who might fill some of the category.