She was on to something. I've had more love and kindness shown to me from complete strangers than my entire family combined, who live to spite me. I keep telling my mom that people are generally good, it's what's got us living in the modern age, it's just that capitalism keeps the good people from sticking together.
I don't think all family units are reactionary. I just think Americans are more reactionary & selfish in general so if you pick out random families they'll seem to be reactionary & selfish.