You know I threw sex positive parties, like those in which there will be quite a bit of fucking sooner or later. One thing that was against consent was just creeping up on everyone and saying: Wanna fuck?!
Even in sex positive places you have to establish contact first, then do escalate in little steps. Even when I go cruising I don't just join two people playing and respect the consent to escalate. So I might have harsh opinions about it, but it is possible to not be a creep - if you are in a structurally powerful position you just have to be aware of that and have to actually act different.
You know I threw sex positive parties, like those in which there will be quite a bit of fucking sooner or later. One thing that was against consent was just creeping up on everyone and saying: Wanna fuck?!
Even in sex positive places you have to establish contact first, then do escalate in little steps. Even when I go cruising I don't just join two people playing and respect the consent to escalate. So I might have harsh opinions about it, but it is possible to not be a creep - if you are in a structurally powerful position you just have to be aware of that and have to actually act different.