That and the fact that most of the clothing/armor is only for the women is really annoying
People will do that even for entirely nonsexual gender-neutral clothing or armor, like they can't be bothered to slightly reshape a mesh of like a jacket or a suit of armor because then they can't jack off to their waifu in it.
me: wants to play a dashing pansexual casanova having consensual fun around the realm
sex mods: you want to force yourself on the sex slaves, you say?
You can also be the sex slave and have every man in the province force themselves upon you.
You know. The two fetishes.
Plus that questline in Interesting NPCs where you help someone transition
It's pretty well done. You start it by meeting Terynne in the Windhelm Court Mage's room if you want to do the quest.
I feel like the overlap between people who devote their time to making Skyrim sex mods and people who are not sexists is somewhat smaller than you might think
Oh! This reminded me of the time someone released a mod that made the armour less sexy for the ladies. It's still up it seems, there's a reason the comments have been locked for 10 years though.
Here at the volcel police we believe you shouldn't jack off at all. Perverting a video game in such a way is unacceptable, and a clear breach of volcel law. Officers are on their way to confiscate the computer.