I do sincerely appreciate the encouragement. I dont want to seem contrarian but just even finding these groups feels out of reach. Everyone says just join a group but literally I dont understand how to find said groups. Might be my own inability but it is terribly isolating to be in a city alone. Edit: I also dont play games like magic. Ill play other board games though.
The steps to get involved in it aren't complicated (I keep harping on a game store because it's what I do personally).
Use this site to find one near you https://www.localgamestores.com/
Pick one and look at its event schedule
Go to something described as beginner friendly
Give it your best effort; no one is judging you
It won't be easy, but it will be simple. If you've come here asking, you understand that you need to make a behavioral change to improve your social life. This is it. It requires effort and commitment.
Do you mind if I message you in a few days to ask if you've followed up on this?
You can follow up, it will likely not be a totally positive result when you do. However I see what you mean and will do my best to try and improve. Thank you again! :heart-sickle:
It's hard to do something new and scary! But your comfort zone is only making you miserable, so you gotta break out of it..And sometimes you will fail! That's ok. The key is to not let things discourage you.
I do sincerely appreciate the encouragement. I dont want to seem contrarian but just even finding these groups feels out of reach. Everyone says just join a group but literally I dont understand how to find said groups. Might be my own inability but it is terribly isolating to be in a city alone. Edit: I also dont play games like magic. Ill play other board games though.
The steps to get involved in it aren't complicated (I keep harping on a game store because it's what I do personally).
Use this site to find one near you https://www.localgamestores.com/
Pick one and look at its event schedule
Go to something described as beginner friendly
Give it your best effort; no one is judging you
It won't be easy, but it will be simple. If you've come here asking, you understand that you need to make a behavioral change to improve your social life. This is it. It requires effort and commitment.
Do you mind if I message you in a few days to ask if you've followed up on this?
You can follow up, it will likely not be a totally positive result when you do. However I see what you mean and will do my best to try and improve. Thank you again! :heart-sickle:
It's hard to do something new and scary! But your comfort zone is only making you miserable, so you gotta break out of it..And sometimes you will fail! That's ok. The key is to not let things discourage you.
Motivation comes from doing.