The only joy in my day at the moment is listening to California Soul by Marlena Shaw or Hit Or Miss by Odetta. Bored of vidya. Bored of chatting to girls. Working out has become a chore. University assignments are a struggle. Life's dull to say the least.
Chat. Go out on a date. Tell the same jokes I always do. Fuck around. Move on. Repeat. Just feels formulaic at this point. Maybe it's time to start thinking about something more long term.
And here I was thinking I was missing out ;)
give it a shot
good to have experienced it before settling down imo
You think I would be on chapo dot chat if I had social skills?
well what am I doin bucko
it's all practice
ye get the hang of it after enough attempts
I think I used up my attempts. Or more like everytime I make an attempt, that's one more person who can pass along the info that I am a pathetic loser weirdo. :agony:
sounds like all the more of a reason to keep trying
not like it can get worse lol
no but on a real note I doubt anyone's passing that on, and the good thing about tinder is that you'll never meet your fuckups, so it's live and let live even if they do think you're strange.
It can get worse though. Trying and failing is way more devastating than not trying at all, and the failures pile up, which usually is a sign that things really aren't working.
If I ever had anything interesting to talk to people about, I've forgotten it. This isn't just about dating either.
Sorry for hijacking your thread with doomer shit. I don't expect you to solve my problems but I appreciate trying ♥️
dw lol all I'm doing is giving empty 'be confident' platitudes really
doesn't it kill you wondering what could've been? Surely you want a relationship some day?
Lets get real for a sec - would you say you're physically attractive? Is there anything you can do to improve how attractive you are? I was meh before I started hitting the gym. In 3 months of gym my match rate has skyrocketed.
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