Honestly think that people working more and being more stressed, causing other social relationships to collapse (fewer friendships, less time for hobbies and leisure) are more to blame than the rise tinder.
Don't forget about the collapse of religion, especially the "weekly church goer" type of congregant. It's a fuck but religion used to basically serve as a two hour weekly socially-mandatory social club.
I don’t think it has to be causal for the tinder stuff to be relevant and insightful. The increased commodification and encroachment of markets into all aspects of life seems very related to both the modern (global north) working conditions and rise in app-mediated approaches to dating and relationship building.
I would assume all of these things are paving the way for others to develop more fully
I'm not sure if it's less time for leisure, or the way that leisure is increasingly something people do alone. (e.g. the dozens and dozens of TV shows that people somehow keep up with)
On the street, in the supermarket, on the train...
"Hey, sorry to bother you, but I saw you standing there, and I think you're really cute. Wanna tell me your name?"
Most girls liked being approached if you were genuine. What most of them were looking for in a man, above all, was confidence, and maybe being easy to be around.
No with the apps you are expected to commodify yourself, make a profile a so on. I guess we do that to an extent in our daily lives through fashion or whatever but the app environment functions a lot more like a literal human marketplace. There's "chance"/fate in meeting that makes romance romantic
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Friends, friends of friends, hobbies, and jobs, mostly.
Honestly think that people working more and being more stressed, causing other social relationships to collapse (fewer friendships, less time for hobbies and leisure) are more to blame than the rise tinder.
Don't forget about the collapse of religion, especially the "weekly church goer" type of congregant. It's a fuck but religion used to basically serve as a two hour weekly socially-mandatory social club.
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Well if the divorce rate of boomers is anything to go by, what they did to meet was not such a good idea either
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I don’t think it has to be causal for the tinder stuff to be relevant and insightful. The increased commodification and encroachment of markets into all aspects of life seems very related to both the modern (global north) working conditions and rise in app-mediated approaches to dating and relationship building.
I would assume all of these things are paving the way for others to develop more fully
I'm not sure if it's less time for leisure, or the way that leisure is increasingly something people do alone. (e.g. the dozens and dozens of TV shows that people somehow keep up with)
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ngl all the dating makes organizing a nightmare for those orgs
This is why the next Lenin must be volcel :volcel-police:
At this point I'm more likely to get someone to join a socialist org near me by dating them than the other way around.
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On the street, in the supermarket, on the train...
"Hey, sorry to bother you, but I saw you standing there, and I think you're really cute. Wanna tell me your name?"
Most girls liked being approached if you were genuine. What most of them were looking for in a man, above all, was confidence, and maybe being easy to be around.
no offense but that has immediate "find the nearest exit" vibes
If that works for you and doesn't make women uncomfortable you do you, but uh... I would be concerned if a man did that to me
Ok
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No with the apps you are expected to commodify yourself, make a profile a so on. I guess we do that to an extent in our daily lives through fashion or whatever but the app environment functions a lot more like a literal human marketplace. There's "chance"/fate in meeting that makes romance romantic
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it's not so much the apps specifically causing this but those apps are emblematic of the larger trend of more commodified dating