I will never understand these people. It's nonlogic. If the sole reason you refuse to date someone is because they are trans well, tough luck shithead, you are literally being transphobic, hence the combination of "trans" and "phobic" a word that means "fear and/or hatred"

If you're so scared of being an outspoken transphobe just keep your mouth shut, stop twisting yourself (and words) into pretzels. Just shut the fuck up and sit in your corner. The world isn't lacking in your opinion, nobody is asking you to add your voice to the cacophony. Nobody is asking you to chime in about an extremely marginalized and outnumbered minority. I take that back, bigots really enjoy you saying shit like that, so consider your bedfellows before lying down. Bed with dogs, wake up with fleas.