A message from a Hexbear user - Blåhaj Lemmy
lemmy.blahaj.zone
Hello Blahaj users, Unfortunately we have been discussing defederation. I would like for this to be sorted out, but our trans and disabled users deserve to be protected from transphobia and ableism. We know these are behaviors are perpetrated by a minority of Blahaj users, but they are tolerated here in the form of the 196 community. Of course, most Hexbear users are willing to re-federate once this bigoted community is removed. The admin Ada has been very helpful and I have faith in her to do the right thing for the safety of her community members. In the meantime, I would like to extend an invitation to all leftists here to make an account on Hexbear. As long as you are anti-capitalist, you will be welcome there. We are hyper-inclusive and are strict against all forms of bigotry. There has been much disinformation spread about us, so if you have good faith questions, feel free to ask. We are not “pro-Russia” as many of our detractors claim, we are anti-NATO, as they perpetuate the amerikan empire. Please ask us anything in this thread! We hope this defederation is temporary, or better yet, never comes. We do not wish to split two large queer instances just weeks after federating, but we must do what we think is right. Trans rights forever! trans-heart [https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/aec9b839-d11e-4611-9263-60a84384ac89.png]

i was trying to be tactful, respectful, and understanding by posting this thread for ppl to ask questions abt our beautiful hexbear. i didnt get any questions.

it took 4 hours for Ada, their admin, to respond. she locked the thread shortly after responding

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her reply above was disheartening, as she seemed willing to work with us previously. equating ableism to a dunk tank post is just vile. and claiming the transphobia in 196 is “a specific event that occurred around a month ago” proves she didnt read any of our concerns. i didnt know abt that event, im sure most of us here dont. our concerns are rooted in the chasers of 196 (non-trans ppl who fetishize trans ppl). someone replied to her saying we were “concern-trolling”. is it that unbelievable that we care abt not having bigotry in the same space as us. i want to grab some of these users by the shoulders, shake them, and yell, “WE ARE BEING GENUINE. WE ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT PROVIDING A SAFE, SUPPORTIVE SPACE FOR ALL PEOPLE, AND YOUR COMMUNITY IS ALIENATING TRANS AND DISABLED PEOPLE!!”

responses were not very positive of us

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they think this is a bit! lol, lmao even! this whole thing has me jokerfication

this chain of comments particularly upset me

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“its a troll”. my pronouns are right next to my name, and “it” isnt one of them (even tho thats 100% a valid pronoun to prefer)

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this one had me fully jokerfied

and the cherry on top warranted its own post https://hexbear.net/post/373453

  • stardust [she/her]
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    1 年前

    Do you think every blahaj user upvoted those kinds of comments?

        • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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          1 年前

          Why aren’t comments going against them? The only thing I can think is that Blahaj is filled with reactionary alt-right

          • stardust [she/her]
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            1 年前

            I don't know specifically what comments you're referring to. I can't reply to everything on blahaj. I don't think this conversation is going anywhere so I'm just going to block and move on. Take care

            • ImOnADiet@lemmygrad.ml
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              1 年前

              I’m just going to block and move on.

              there was no need for this, just ask to disengage and report them if they don't respect it???

              • stardust [she/her]
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                1 年前

                Not sure why it matters, but sure I'll use that. Disengage please

              • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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                1 年前

                Or, if disengagement is what is wanted, they could also just do that without a comment. Disengagement really only takes one person. It’s not like I was following them around commenting on every post or something like that

                  • silent_water [she/her]
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                    1 年前

                    you don't have to but it helps if the topic is heated or if someone is replying to you from multiple places in the thread.

                  • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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                    1 年前

                    Eh, even if you can disengage like that, I’d rather her block me. I don’t care to engage with someone who I will disagree with like that

              • silent_water [she/her]
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                1 年前

                no, she's saying there's still some good people there. it's not a defense of the instance, just some of the users. I know they exist because they were getting heated with the 196 mod in the "hexbear defederated" thread, forcing that mod to revise history and pretend they were a smolbean that did nothing wrong. I think they'll be driven off the instance, personally, as the mod/admin teams are at best enabling a cryptofash mod to go unchecked.

              • kristina [she/her]
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                1 年前

                nah there were plenty of trans people on blahaj that are just looking for a nice place to be, but blahaj is very hostile due to the amount of chasers that got invited on. best to be understanding. regardless the majority of trans people are socialist, so please keep that in mind when interacting too

                • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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                  1 年前

                  I suppose. I’m still extremely suspicious of that instance due, especially, to this post as it doesn’t exactly seem like a non-reactionary instance