i was trying to be tactful, respectful, and understanding by posting this thread for ppl to ask questions abt our beautiful hexbear. i didnt get any questions.

it took 4 hours for Ada, their admin, to respond. she locked the thread shortly after responding

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her reply above was disheartening, as she seemed willing to work with us previously. equating ableism to a dunk tank post is just vile. and claiming the transphobia in 196 is “a specific event that occurred around a month ago” proves she didnt read any of our concerns. i didnt know abt that event, im sure most of us here dont. our concerns are rooted in the chasers of 196 (non-trans ppl who fetishize trans ppl). someone replied to her saying we were “concern-trolling”. is it that unbelievable that we care abt not having bigotry in the same space as us. i want to grab some of these users by the shoulders, shake them, and yell, “WE ARE BEING GENUINE. WE ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT PROVIDING A SAFE, SUPPORTIVE SPACE FOR ALL PEOPLE, AND YOUR COMMUNITY IS ALIENATING TRANS AND DISABLED PEOPLE!!”

responses were not very positive of us

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they think this is a bit! lol, lmao even! this whole thing has me jokerfication

this chain of comments particularly upset me

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“its a troll”. my pronouns are right next to my name, and “it” isnt one of them (even tho thats 100% a valid pronoun to prefer)

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this one had me fully jokerfied

and the cherry on top warranted its own post https://hexbear.net/post/373453

  • ImOnADiet@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    I’m just going to block and move on.

    there was no need for this, just ask to disengage and report them if they don't respect it???

    • stardust [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      Not sure why it matters, but sure I'll use that. Disengage please

    • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      Or, if disengagement is what is wanted, they could also just do that without a comment. Disengagement really only takes one person. It’s not like I was following them around commenting on every post or something like that

        • silent_water [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          you don't have to but it helps if the topic is heated or if someone is replying to you from multiple places in the thread.

        • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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          1 year ago

          Eh, even if you can disengage like that, I’d rather her block me. I don’t care to engage with someone who I will disagree with like that