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  • GeorgeZBush [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    Yeah I totally feel this. I really need to just....find social shit to do. All my hobbies are solitary and I keep to myself in public.

    • Omegamint [comrade/them, doe/deer]
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      1 year ago

      It can be hard if you don’t live in an urban center but even things like reading groups are a very simple way to meet people. Last time I did a book group I was surrounded by middle aged women that were just entirely enamored with a guy there that reads, the bar is very low honestly. With any hobby that involves interacting with others over a long period of time you will have a huge benefit from just not being a crummy person. With women especially there is a huge benefit from just being around enough to show that you aren’t a prick

    • ButtBidet [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      All my hobbies are solitary and I keep to myself in public.

      This is 100% me. I really feel that the West has a bias against introverts, especially introverted men. Like, there's nothing inheritly wrong with enjoying one's own company more, but FFS our culture punishes it.

      • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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        1 year ago

        it's cool how we have to decide between the mental self-harm of apps and the risk of physical harm catching covid to have a chance at evaluating the risk of intimate partner violence.