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  • EelBolshevikism [none/use name]
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    6 months ago

    It’s so fucking hard finding cute girls as a sapphic trans woman (?), I mean cute girls are EVERYWHERE but for some reason they either want a secondary with their boyfriend, don’t want to be with pre-op trans women, or are taken and content, or treat me like crap

    Where do I even find more? Should I even try and find more? People say that love is something you shouldn’t look for and you should just be content being single, but I’ve done that for ages and the result was me passively accepting a relationship that I didn’t really like and/or just never going out of my shell

    • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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      6 months ago

      Hey I know right. I am bi myself but maybe it's just cause I'm early transition... idk NOBODY is interested in me. Not cis or trans people. Not NB's. Guys are interested but they are chaser guys and just really want to fuck. I had one girl interested in me for 5 seconds while she was drunk but we met up sober and she seemed disappointed. Idk. I know how you feel ❤️ I'm sorry

      • EelBolshevikism [none/use name]
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        6 months ago

        I keep meeting girls who are interested but they always end up being with guys as well, either as a open-relationship-for-casual-sex with the guy being their primary partner and everyone else including me being casual, or just with a boyfriend as a primary partner and without much desire to interact with or treat me as worthy of attention as a prospective person to be dating. I’ve been growing more disillusioned and jealous of men in general and I’ve even felt it bleeding over into anger at the pan women this happened with, which I feel terrible about, they don’t deserve that anger