autocorrect keeps wanting to make it "envy," which isn't entirely wrong

How did you figure out you were enby?

I've come to realize that my super-femme presentation is a form of masking, and I'm trying to figure out where I actually fall in the spectrum of gender.

So yeah, how did you figure out you weren't "gender" and were actually enby?

Does just thinking that maybe I'm not either mean that probably I'm not either? Is the state of being unsure and kinda in-between where you identify or what?

  • the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]
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    2 months ago

    my current favorite presentation of myself: Dickies womens Women’s Flex Cooling Temp-iq® Long Sleeve CoverallsOveralls https://a.co/d/0bltTPw

    I tried to upload a picture of me wearing it, but my shitty rural internet has other ideas about how I should spend my data and time

    Edit: also, I buzzed my hair down to a pixie cut myself, which I feel kinda plants me in-between just by the actual action: want to look cute but also want all this extra shit off me and also don't want to pay for it and also don't trust anyone to do what I actually want because I'm so femme they think I must not actually want to look the way that I look

    if that isn't the most AuDHD paragraph anybody has ever written, I'll eat eggs

    I hate eggs, their sulfuric nastiness puts me right off, I only have birds in my yard to eat hornets

    edit V2: need to record more videos of my very special chicken, you all would love her, she is so inquisitive and friendly, she just wants to hang out and watch what you're doing and maybe eat some bugs, just the sweetest and best little chicky ever, I love her so much.

    Comment if you'd like me to give her some chest scritches tomorrow while telling her your name and why you think it's awesome that she can just be with no pressure to lay eggs, that she lives in a home where her personality is appreciated more than her physical output

    she lives in a home where her personality is appreciated more than her physical output

    honestly, humans, aren't we all striving for this