it's how she describes herself lmao

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  • Cromalin [she/her]
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    6 months ago

    conflate womanhood with a couple of choices in clothing

    i don't think it's intentional but this is a deeply transphobic way of framing things you find cringe

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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      6 months ago

      Definitely not intentional. Out of context, it could definitely be portrayed as a terf talking point. I meant it specifically when it's used by people to insist people who explicitly identify as cis are actually secretly eggs in denial - even if it turns out to be true, it's still disrespectful to ignore how people ask to be gendered.

      • Cromalin [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        i am unconcerned with the plight of the femboy. people are slightly annoying to cis guys who wear dresses by suggesting they may be part of a broader community, who cares. being a woman is not a negative thing, being trans is not a negative thing, people are constantly annoying to everyone on the planet for all kinds of reasons femboys aren't special

        i'm going to ban you for a week, don't come into a thread that isn't about femboy erasure and get really mad about and interpret everyone's comments as being about femboy erasure