You can't help someone who doesn't want help, even if they're ODing consistently. Support doesn't mean controlling them.
The only thing a narcissist respects is firm boundary holding but they will keep pushing, so either cut them out permanently or be prepared to hold your ground
Do inner child work to find and address trauma from childhood
Grieve and process the childhood and family you never had. Feel the feelings that were repressed
You can't help someone who doesn't want help, even if they're ODing consistently. Support doesn't mean controlling them.
The only thing a narcissist respects is firm boundary holding but they will keep pushing, so either cut them out permanently or be prepared to hold your ground
Do inner child work to find and address trauma from childhood
Grieve and process the childhood and family you never had. Feel the feelings that were repressed
Hard won lesson. Took me forever.