She complained about my long hair before I cut it, I never mentioned it before here I think. as for my mom, I don't understand her, she's unpredictable, and my theory is that it's because she wanted me to be a girl, like she bought a ton of baby girl clothes before I was born and had a girl name ready for me, and she gave me the nickname "Mona" when I was a kid, she made me wear a dress a few months ago, so I guess some of that sometimes shows in her without her noticing? I honestly don't know.