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It really makes me wonder if human brains are hardwired for some level of reationary thought, even if it's just internal. Every time I do something big that recontextualises my world going forward, like for instance changing the lens that my mother views me through, I backslide into dysphoric questioning.
And that pattern seems to be a common one, not just for trans folks.
Experience big change -> question big change