I'm guilty of saying "I have a bf" as a knee jerk reaction to random guys invading my space like inviting themselves to sit with me or something ngl.
But just as much I don't bring my bf up around guys who give off a particularly energy. I'm scared they'll lash out if they find out I'm "not theirs for the taking" and instead i just get away as quickly as I can.
Every friend i have who dates men has a story like this. (god I realise that sounds like him lmao)
Don't know how I feel about having to engage and teach feminism to the later group when I'm scared to even be honest around them.
I'm guilty of saying "I have a bf" as a knee jerk reaction to random guys invading my space like inviting themselves to sit with me or something ngl.
But just as much I don't bring my bf up around guys who give off a particularly energy. I'm scared they'll lash out if they find out I'm "not theirs for the taking" and instead i just get away as quickly as I can.
Every friend i have who dates men has a story like this.
(god I realise that sounds like him lmao)
Don't know how I feel about having to engage and teach feminism to the later group when I'm scared to even be honest around them.
I think you shoulr just beat them with a bat like Aubrey when they get within 3pft of you, like an AoE trigger