I've been cracked for a couple years at this point, there's just no established scientific consensus if "nonbinary transbian mailbomber (she / her)" counts as a feeeeeemale gender identity or if it dumps the entire concept of binary gender into a burning garbage can.
If your gender identity doesn't dump the entire concept of binary gender into a burning garbage can you should just give it back, you're obviously not doing anything worthwhile with it.
On a practical level, defaulting to pronouns is still supportive of people struggling to fit their identity into the existing binary. My opinions on gender, while 100% unimpeachably correct, come from a position of privilege within the existing structure. Gender is like the stock market, it's all imaginary bullshit but it still impacts pretty much every aspect of your life.
I've been cracked for a couple years at this point, there's just no established scientific consensus if "nonbinary transbian mailbomber (she / her)" counts as a feeeeeemale gender identity or if it dumps the entire concept of binary gender into a burning garbage can.
Dumping the entire concept of binary gender into a burning garbage can is the only acceptable gender.
Into the trash it goes!
If your gender identity doesn't dump the entire concept of binary gender into a burning garbage can you should just give it back, you're obviously not doing anything worthwhile with it.
On a practical level, defaulting to pronouns is still supportive of people struggling to fit their identity into the existing binary. My opinions on gender, while 100% unimpeachably correct, come from a position of privilege within the existing structure. Gender is like the stock market, it's all imaginary bullshit but it still impacts pretty much every aspect of your life.