I mean I agree about that, and I do think there is a lot of selective puritanism involved here (especially by Cishet society) despite the fact that they will parade around kids as sexual attractions and make statements like "Wow you're going to be so hot when you grow up" to young girls and the like, but I personally don't see that contradiction in society being a good defense of it. If anything it's the opposite and sexualizing everything is a disturbing trend in society that victimizes and harasses people who don't want it, a societal trend of Cishets that queer culture shouldn't be joining because it's filled with misogyny and pedophilia.