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  • jabrd [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Subtweeting the entire site instead of calling out specific posters and reporting them to the mods is, in fact, the 12th form of liberalism :mao-wtf:

      • jabrd [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        This is the most cryptic shit. Who are we talking about? Who is opposed to not saying slurs? Everyone in this thread agrees with your premise as far as I can tell, and I'd say the same is probably true for the entire site. Is there a specific slur you think people aren't acknowledging is as harmful as it really is? Is there a culture of hostility towards a specific group we need to reckon with? What's happening here? I'm so confused

  • jabrd [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Is this in response to a specific thing?

  • DashEightMate [any]
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    3 years ago

    And also, op: please call out a specific instance or two. It's not constructive at all to say "this site has a problem" and refuse to elaborate.

  • DashEightMate [any]
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    3 years ago

    Locking this because there is going to be an inevitable "but what about..." which is a fucking pain to moderate through. Dont use slurs, if you're talking about yourself that's one thing (spoiler it though please) but otherwise hard no. Thanks.

  • Lil_Revolitionary [she/her,they/them]
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    3 years ago

    I haven't ventured far from the front page of this site in the past week, are we dealing with an epidemic of slurs here at hexbear? I agree with the post, but I scrolled through 30 comments and can't figure out the catalyst

  • newusername [she/her]
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    3 years ago

    What I've done for the queer places I mod/help in is say that you can use it for yourself but not for other people or for the community as a group. So if you want to call yourself a slur I won't really stop you, but if you say "Us slurs deal with a lot of shit" or whatever then no, you're including other people now who don't want to be called that.

  • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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    3 years ago

    This so much. If anyone but my best friend calls me the "bundle of sticks/cigarette" slur, I'll whack them over the head with my walking stick. Seriously the amount of people that think that shit is acceptable to say is way too damn high.

  • D61 [any]
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    3 years ago

    This would be nice.