CW sexual assault, physical assault Growing up, I've been repeatedly assaulted and harassed by know it all's. That's how upsettingly nerdy they were about gatekeeping the autonomy of thinking for myself. Because they wanted to violate the most intimate of boundaries, and not have me fight back. They wanted control and power over me in every way. To play pretend that they were all powerful and intelligent wizards.

I see a lot of communists on here saying things that might lead to them being stigmatized, and I want to be able to do that more. You guys shut down nerdiness. I've been conditioned to have controlling nerd voices in my head, and automatically let them convince me out of setting boundaries and speaking up for what I believe in. Now I'm my own controlling nerd, and I don't want to be. I want to walk the right path regardless of how stigmatized it may be.

How do you shut down nerds? Especially when their opinions are antihuman? If you don't care about piggypoopballs opinions, what are your reasons for not caring?

  • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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    7 months ago

    I actually disagree with shut up. These people are looking for anything that can keep it going and keep them being powerful over you. Saying shut up will give them what they want, a response. Them, the intellectual, you the angry person saying shut up.

    Just say you're done with the conversation and stop responding. Silent indifference eats at these deeply insecure people.

    • Mardoniush [she/her]
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      7 months ago

      That's why you say "shut up nerd" in a contemptuous tone, not an angry one.

    • FlakesBongler [they/them]
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      7 months ago

      I think it depends on the situation

      Online, yeah, say you're done and ignore them

      Real life, I think people need that little slap to the ego