why do they all fucking hate their partners? why would you willingly date and then fucking marry someone you hate?? am i missing something here???

  • IsAnythingReal [comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    THIS.

    I have completely true commentary here. My partner is MTF, and pre-transition for about half of our relationship. It was pretty rocky early on, NGL, but I saw good in her. Once she transitioned...we stopped fighting. Ever. Literally ever. I think the biggest argument we have had in years is over whether garlic belongs in mashed potatoes or not (an "argument" in which we were both laughing throughout it).

    An interesting side effect of watching someone become who they are inside is the ripple effect. Everyone else in their lives feels and experiences their happiness.

    Also garlic belongs in mashed potatoes and I will die on this hill

    • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Thank you for bringing this here to r/relationships, I think she is the asshole and denying that garlic belongs in mashed potatoes is gaslighting and abusive. Dump her and call the police right away.