I'm not just talking Italians, every woman I know that's with an older man says they won't go down on them because they say vajajay is yucky
I'm not just talking Italians, every woman I know that's with an older man says they won't go down on them because they say vajajay is yucky
Because being a man means you're a top and actively doing things to your partners genitals isnt topping but getting your bits sucked is apparently
Wait is being a man all about bottoming? Fuck
:top-use-words: Your words not mine
:bottom-speak:
I'm not a man
That one chick from the gay hobbit show
:yes-sicko:
the sex acts themselves I wouldn't say are really either or, it really depends on the people and their dynamic.
Like power-bottoms are a thing.
Okay but in their heads the things are connected
If I had to explain what I think their logic is, I think someone else said it, but oral can be seen as "submissive" (or whatever) because you are mostly giving your partner pleasure which I guess can be seen as servile.
But like...there are "dominant" ways to give your partner pleasure...so again, it's kind of silly.
The dominant way to give pleasure with oral would be to control when your partner orgasms or to make them cum repeatedly, neither of which they could do anyway which is why they stay far away
:hyperflush: mhmm