This is kind of the TERF thing where they claim trans women are problematically reinforcing gender roles or whatever.
Not calling you a TERF of course, that's just a wrong thing they believe.
Identifying in a particular way or expressing your gender in a particular way, even one that's very compliant with traditional notions of masculinity and femininity, isn't a problem.
"Reinforcing traditional gender roles" doesn't start until you're shaming others for their choices.
This is kind of the TERF thing where they claim trans women are problematically reinforcing gender roles or whatever.
Not calling you a TERF of course, that's just a wrong thing they believe.
Identifying in a particular way or expressing your gender in a particular way, even one that's very compliant with traditional notions of masculinity and femininity, isn't a problem.
"Reinforcing traditional gender roles" doesn't start until you're shaming others for their choices.