• LibsEatPoop3 [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Yeah this guy really needs therapy.

    My girlfriend… was even very complimentary of me.

    Obviously, dipshit. People who love you don’t talk shit behind your back -_-

    I dunno if it’s gonna salvage the relationship but the guy really needs to just come clean and express in clear terms what mistakes he made, what led him to them and how he’s gonna fix it (like therapy). Right now she’s obviously pissed and hurt but if it’s a long term relationship then, if you wait, she could take you back.

      • AbbysMuscles [she/her]
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        3 years ago

        If you're implying she did something to cause his lack of trust, fuck off. It's entirely possible to have fears of abandonment and betrayal absolutely consume you until you do something absurd without the partner having done anything after all. I'm in therapy for massive abandonment issues stemming from family shit that happened years ago. I still freak out if I detect the slightest hint that a friend or loved one is potentially mad or annoyed at me. And I hide in my room until it passes, I don't go hiding in people's fucking closets.