Of course you didnt say that because im being hyperbolic due to frustration. Lets just leave it at "agree to disagree" since we have vastly different fundamental presuppositions about human life and how to act on the internet.

I still think its totally wrong to ridicule vulnerable people based on private interpersonal failings because its human to fuck up like this and not necessarily something related to chuddery/nurgle worship.

In my opinion, it is also ridiculous to draw such drastic, sweeping conclusions about a person's moral character solely based on information given to us on normie level reddit posts. Hiding in a closet is fucking cringe and violates privacy, but we dont know enough about the life context to determine with certainty whether it is part of a pattern of abuse or a one time incident spurred on by extraneous factors not mentioned in the post leading to a declining mental health. Whether the man is a respectful, good partner is up to his girlfriend to decide because she has the context. We dont. Thus it is absolutely none of our business to make any vast moral judgements of character within a person's harmless interpersonal struggles.

The person who made that post on reddit is a son of nurgle and literally should be prosecuted for home invasion.