I really dislike how hateful and toxic the larger communities are, they straight up give no fucks about being considerate and helpful. Being inflammatory to another in your community is not necessary.
There's just no need to be so rude when it comes to super low stakes opinions on cake or whatever. I feel like they forget each commenter is a human being. It's not even like I've been flamed, I just don't like to lurk in these toxic communities. It kind of ruins the mood of the day, yknow?
Casual misogyny is another major bummer, it really reinforces that some people have terrible opinions of your gender. And who knows who has these opinions? Your boss, your co-worker, your relatives? It cements the feeling that misogyny is everywhere, and who knows how many times opportunities have been denied to you because of that.
I really dislike how hateful and toxic the larger communities are, they straight up give no fucks about being considerate and helpful. Being inflammatory to another in your community is not necessary.
There's just no need to be so rude when it comes to super low stakes opinions on cake or whatever. I feel like they forget each commenter is a human being. It's not even like I've been flamed, I just don't like to lurk in these toxic communities. It kind of ruins the mood of the day, yknow?
Casual misogyny is another major bummer, it really reinforces that some people have terrible opinions of your gender. And who knows who has these opinions? Your boss, your co-worker, your relatives? It cements the feeling that misogyny is everywhere, and who knows how many times opportunities have been denied to you because of that.