I didn't see what you said but I know you sincerely apologised and like you say you're not someone I would think would be actually transphobic.

If you would comfortable staying, that would be cool. I think you have important things to say and you can teach us a thing or two about life.

We need this space to be a diverse place with people from many backgrounds who have their own experiences and takes. We will definitely be losing something if you go. Either way, you're valid