I typically support both, but since you can't say that out loud to most people cuz "muh civility" I typically just go with something like "In a perfect world it wouldn't happen, but we don't live in a perfect world. Neither activity invalidates the message that's trying to be sent.".
I typically support both, but since you can't say that out loud to most people cuz "muh civility" I typically just go with something like "In a perfect world it wouldn't happen, but we don't live in a perfect world. Neither activity invalidates the message that's trying to be sent.".