Did you know that abusers engage in love bombing? Love bombing is when you meet someone on Tinder but then they don't like you, so they go date someone else.

Contrary to popular belief it's not abuse when someone confides in you that their privacy has been violated, so you screenshot that exact message and post it to your large TikTok audience, triggering a worldwide harassment and doxxing campaign over someones lack of sexual morality, and worst of all, not continuing to date YOU

Really cool to get Quaker Oats or something to call your date a fucking slut

https://mobile.twitter.com/ohheyjenna/status/1483887997430992896

      • joaomarrom [he/him, comrade/them]
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        3 years ago

        I'm sorry I came off like that, comrade. I elaborated a bit on my first point in another comment, I hope I sound a bit more reasonable there :)

    • joaomarrom [he/him, comrade/them]
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      3 years ago

      Lol, I know how it sounds, but it's not about women, or anything or anyone in particular aside from me. I've had relationships in the past, one of which was really great and ended on very friendly terms. It's just that I find it deeply exhausting to connect to people, and this kind of thing that's in the OP seems to happen so often. It's exhausting. It drains me... it's like independent of gender and sexuality, there is always a risk inherent to relationships that I'm simply not willing to take anymore.

      I hope people find their own thing, and I totally respect that, I just want people to be happy. That includes me, and rather than getting involved and risking getting hurt again, I decide not to engage. That's all... I'm sorry if that sounds like mgtow horseshit to the other commenter, it's just my way of protecting what little mental health I have. Staying here inside my shell, doing my thing. Maybe I was grandstanding a bit in my original comment, though, so there's that. I hope I cleared things up, comrades!