people with leisure class levels of money are pathologically paranoid about getting taken advantage of. while they may fuck around in their youth with those of us in the 'lower orders', when it comes to marriage a lot of them are going generally only look for committed affection from within their class, imagining this will insulate them somewhat from a transactional manipulator (it doesn't, lol).
but anyway, the short answer to your question is attending a prestigious art school.
honestly the best way to avoid that is to date people who have actual empathy and aren't pieces of shit, aka people lower than you on the economic hierarchy
people with leisure class levels of money are pathologically paranoid about getting taken advantage of. while they may fuck around in their youth with those of us in the 'lower orders', when it comes to marriage a lot of them are going generally only look for committed affection from within their class, imagining this will insulate them somewhat from a transactional manipulator (it doesn't, lol).
but anyway, the short answer to your question is attending a prestigious art school.
imagine trying to avoid transactional manipulators by marrying someone in an economic class of transactional manipulators
honestly the best way to avoid that is to date people who have actual empathy and aren't pieces of shit, aka people lower than you on the economic hierarchy
Go into 200K debt to get your MRS. Real David Graeber hours.