Mine:

  • I can't swallow an orange because of the texture.
  • I cannot wear laced shoes because of the sensation they give me.
  • I don't like wearing boxers, so I wear "women's" underwear, but I don't like that flap it has in the crotch so I always cut it out.
  • I feel deeply uncomfortable with the "female" button ups having the buttons on the wrong side, so even if I like the design I cannot fathom actually wearing them. (Sad, they frequently have much cooler designs.)
  • I am also extremely particular about the way I organize things, so I may move my furniture around a lot to maximize efficiency.
  • I feel uncomfortable wearing clothes with text printed on them, including brands, which makes me spend extraordinary amount of time trying to find affordable clothing without branding randomly slapped on.
  • I also feel uncomfortable wearing shirts with prints on them, excluding some geometrical patterns.
  • I feel deeply uncomfortable wearing clothes which aren't strictly very dark.
  • I get extremely anxious when I own something I have no use for, which makes me very anxious for receiving gifts.
  • I find "masculine" cosmetic scents and "feminine" cosmetic scents very overwhelming and have to dedicate time to seeking out stuff which's smell won't upset me. I don't mind them on other people, but for me they make me uncomfortable, even though I like them. They're very, very overwhelming...

Probably more.

I hope to hear back from you to feel normaler.

  • AdmiralDoohickey@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 months ago
    • I fucking hate having sticky or greasy substances on my hands. If I am washing the dishes or cooking I might was my hands every time they get dirty just to get rid of the feel
    • I can't watch something and eat at the same time
    • It is very hard for me to focus on something if I am not in my room and/or there is someone next to me
    • I speak loudly if I don't try to lower my voice consciously
    • gaycomputeruser [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      I fucking hate having sticky or greasy substances on my hands. If I am washing the dishes or cooking I might was my hands every time they get dirty just to get rid of the feel

      Mood. Me constantly.

      • ihaveibs [he/him]
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        4 months ago

        Love pancakes but damn I can feel the syrup on my hands for days after

  • blakeus12 [he/him]
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    4 months ago

    I can't stand bright lights. the sun is fine, but in a building? forget about it.

  • Birdie@thelemmy.club
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    4 months ago

    Bananas. Uggghhh, that slimy texture. Texture is hugely important to me.

    My food cannot touch on the plate. And I will eat my foods separately, too. All the veggies until they're gone, then all the meat and so on.

    Shirts cannot touch too closely around my underarms and neck, so I'm sadly usually wearing shirts a size or two too big.

    No tags, ever.

    During cold weather, I wear sweatpants & shirts inside out because the way the seams feel next to my skin skeeves me out.

    Socks make me feel claustrophobic.

    I cannot sleep unless I'm naked.

    Sometimes I have to pull my hair back in a very tight pony tail because it drives me crazy if it touches my face. At night, although I can't wear clothes, I must wear a little sleep cap to be extra sure my hair doesn't touch my face. (I often dream about shaving my head and feel the most exquisite relief. Then I wake up.)

    I read 3 to 4 books at a time, switching out every couple of chapters. Don't know why, except that I love to read and there's so many books and so little time. I do finish them all, eventually!

    There's more, but I'll spare y'all. I've been diagnosed with ADHD (it took years for my team of doctors to decide between mild autism and ADHD) and this thread is making me wonder if any of y'all divirge a bit from the norm also?

    • Sickos [they/them, it/its]
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      4 months ago

      I like bananas but only when they've just turned yellow. Can't stand the mush of a brownish one.

    • albigu@lemmygrad.ml
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      4 months ago

      Bananas. Uggghhh, that slimy texture.

      I wasn't even gonna post anything, but this kinda triggered me. Bananas are horrible, and that sucks because they're very cheap here and one of the most convenient fruits alongside tangerines.

      No cutting, no washing, no chomping on juicy fruit and getting juice all over you. But they feel like solid paste.

    • TheDeed [he/him, comrade/them]
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      4 months ago

      I do the food thing as well. Also same with reading several books simultaneously.

      Similar to the other poster under this comment, I cannot eat a banana with any brown on it 🤢

    • homhom9000 [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      I also have to sleep naked or else I'm super uncomfortable. When I stay at places where it's uncouth to be nude, I have to wear skin tight clothes or else I can't sleep

  • PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S [he/him]@lemmy.sdf.org
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    4 months ago
    • I don't like warm, furry textures. This makes petting dogs, cats, and humans in fursuits a non-starter. Don't get me wrong, I love your cat and it is very cute, just not in my arms.

    • I need to be very cold, preferably below 60°F.

    • I don't like wearing clothes with text or any designs. It needs to be dark-colored and baggy.

    • I generally don't like fresh fruits and vegetables. They have to be "in something". Texture issue.

    • I am basically nocturnal. I just woke up.

    • I prefer dark mode and night colors to the point that it is literally the first thing I check when I get a new piece of software, and there is a good chance that I will uninstall it if there's no dark mode.

    • I don't like bright lights and colors in general.

    • A necessary condition for me to remember something is that it makes sense to me at some level. I can't remember a list of random crap with no connection to anything else for more than a few minutes.

    • I have a "depth-first" style of learning, which means that I gravitate towards learning topics as "deeply" as I can before moving onto the next topic. [1] But, this makes it very difficult to work with other students because they typically want to learn the bare minimum needed to pass the upcoming exam and nothing more. This is especially challenging as an engineering major with the breadth of topics I have to cover.

    • I have a pathological need to justify my thoughts in detail, both to others and my future self. On the bright side, it makes my notes easy to read and my homework easy to grade.

    [1] As an example of "depth-first learning", to learn probability theory, I learned measure theory first, even though it is typically taught "less rigorously" with its conclusions treated as unimportant details. Measure theory doesn't really have a practical use for engineers, because we typically work with the Dirac delta """function""" as if it is a legitimate point function instead of the Dirac delta measure or the distribution the measure induces, but for me it makes probability stuff easier to recall or derive when I forget.

    • AdmiralDoohickey@lemmygrad.ml
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      4 months ago

      I have a “depth-first” style of learning, which means that I gravitate towards learning topics as “deeply” as I can before moving onto the next topic. [1] But, this makes it very difficult to work with other students because they typically want to learn the bare minimum needed to pass the upcoming exam and nothing more. This is especially challenging as an engineering major with the breadth of topics I have to cover.

      I am like this too, and I also struggled during uni. I had to spend a ton of time to learn everything "my way" while others just learned how to solve the exercises mechanically without understanding any of the theory. I bet it's going to cause problems at work as well, given the speed > quality mindset caused by the profit motive

      A necessary condition for me to remember something is that it makes sense to me at some level. I can’t remember a list of random crap with no connection to anything else for more than a few minutes.

      This one too, building a mental model from which I can reconstruct the concepts I remember partially helps me a ton

    • edge [he/him]
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      4 months ago

      I generally don't like fresh fruits and vegetables. They have to be "in something". Texture issue.

      What about steamed? That greatly improves vegetable texture for me.

  • NoLeftLeftWhereILive [none/use name, she/her]
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    4 months ago

    So many, but here's a few:

    -Can't stand the sun blasting at me, or bright lights. Darkness is good. -Have a long sleep ritual and special pillow (an old shapeless blop that I could not sleep without). I will organize my bed, bed linen, pillow and then ear plugs and a bluetooth face mask all of which has to be just right or I can't settle. Using separate bed linens is my best relationship advice because my partner is pure chaos and I am princess and the pea. -I eat things in particular ways, have always reorganized my burgers for example. -Loud sounds or off key music is painful. -Can't wear clothes that don't feel symmetric, like sock lenght or how tight shoelaces are. Can't handle clothes twisting or pulling anywhere, this is why I sleep nude no matter how cold it is. -Hair can't be touching face. -Hot weather and me don't mix at all. -My stuff always has a designated spot. If you move it, I will notice and move it back. No matter how small a thing it is. -Don't talk to me the first two hours after waking up. -Will infodump about anything, to anyone. -My hyperfocuses tend to land me in magazines or careers, I go all in on them. -Dark mode on everything. I game with screen filters on. -Need to feel clean, but skin can't feel dry. I swim in lotion. -Hair has to on the other hand feel and look superclean at all times. -I know most song lyrics by heart and have the most intense earworms with entire playlists of songs in them that can go on for weeks at a time. I have no control over this and any association can bring on songs like writing this is doing. -I think all the time. I analyze things all the time. There is never silence in my head. This is why I listen to stories for sleep or I would never sleep. My brain just keeps having interesting debates and ponderings about all the things. -I love nights. I never sleep nights if I don't have to, I thrive alone in the dark with my thoughts and always have. -I can't survive mornings, I burn out very fast if I have to work mornings for a long time even if I go to sleep early. -My sense of smell and taste are extremely good, can smell if someone is on their period for example. Strong flavours can be a problem. Things that others like, like saffron, taste metallic to me if used in the "normal" amounts. -I am an intense foodie and love perfecting flavour in foods. -Music makes me very emotional. The emotions are so intense I have had to back off from performing certain songs when I still sang because I can't keep it together at all. -Can't handle puke stuff at all, not even in tv or movies. It will make me sick instantly. -Can't play FPS games without getting intense motion sickness. Also can't watch videos while exercising at home without getting nauseous unless the camera is still and not in first person view.

    Oh lol I could just keep on going, but maybe this is plenty. Anyone who reads all this is a champ.

    • Sickos [they/them, it/its]
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      4 months ago

      -I love nights. I never sleep nights if I don't have to, I thrive alone in the dark with my thoughts and always have.

      Same, sleep feels like a waste, and I'm actually pretty thankful for my partner because they make sure I do sleep fairly regularly.

  • sappho [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    I don't like the taste of bottled water, or the taste of water from a stainless steel bottle. Tap water in glass is the way to go

    I have reusable plastic spoons (even though I know they're probably poisoning me with microplastics) because I can't stand the sound of scraping a bowl with a metal spoon

    I pretty much wear exclusively cotton clothes because all the synthetics I've tried inevitably become scratchy. And then you have to deal with the weight of this shirt you once loved a lot becoming something that is too uncomfortable to wear. Cotton gets softer over time

    My very-important socks strategy is 100% cotton, seamless, no elastic/very loose - inside hard bottomed slippers for walking around the house. This is the result of much research

    It's really important to me that my living space is visually minimalistic (while still being cheerful) because I'm easily overstimulated that way. I don't much mind branded clothes, but I do dislike text on display in my home. I feel like it keeps my brain from resting

    I can't use normal hair ties, they're always the wrong tension. I found adjustable ones instead

    • bubbalu [they/them]
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      4 months ago

      I have reusable plastic spoons (even though I know they're probably poisoning me with microplastics) because I can't stand the sound of scraping a bowl with a metal spoon

      Have you thought about getting bamboo spoons? They're anti-microbial too! I am very anxious about plastic consumption.

      • sappho [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        I had not! Didn't know they existed. Thanks for the suggestion, I will look into this.

    • Dꫀꪑꪮꪀᥴ᥅ꪖᥴꪗ@lemmygrad.ml
      hexagon
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      4 months ago

      Speaking of water, I literally cannot drink sparkling water.

      I cannot drink water from reusable containers. No matter how clean I get them, it tastes wrong. I tried glass containers, but the top is plastic and I feel like plastic is making it taste wrong, but every container I found has a plastic element touching the water. :(

      I choose seamless underwear over normal, but I've never seen seamless socks. Do they also remove that thick line near toenails? I hate the sensation of it so bad...

      • sappho [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        Oh gosh I really dislike sparkling water as well! Anything carbonated really. It feels like my tongue is being stabbed in a million places at once

        Yeah it seems impossible to find a glass water bottle that isn't also part plastic... I'm lucky that it doesn't bother me too much.

        That thick line on the toes is the part that gets me too! The ones I use currently technically have a seam there but it's completely flush/flat so it doesn't bother me. The brand is Buster Brown

  • Llituro [he/him, they/them]
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    4 months ago

    I basically can't do see soap suds or smell for doing dishes etc. It hard triggers every fiber of my being to be near it. So I can't wash dishes. Love to cook though.

    • Dꫀꪑꪮꪀᥴ᥅ꪖᥴꪗ@lemmygrad.ml
      hexagon
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      4 months ago

      I find the smell left on dishes from washing them near puke inducing, but thankfully I can do dishes fine. I bought a soap dispenser I fill with the dishwashing detergent to minimize waste, but it also reduces the smell due to reducing the amount used. I doubt it would help you though. :(

    • Sickos [they/them, it/its]
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      4 months ago

      Okay this one there HAS to be a solution to. The whole "super foamy dish soap" thing is engineered to make people think products are working well; it's a separate additive from the detergents themselves most of the time. There has to be some super crunchy-granola chemicals-are-bad detergent brand out there that has no scent or foaminess. Could maybe try a castille soap, too, though they're not as effective as synthetic detergents at grease cutting. I've done doctor bronners soaks on a three basin sink with moderate success; some bad dishes needed a spray and wipe of degreaser before the castille soap step if they were real fucked.

  • ihaveibs [he/him]
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    4 months ago

    I need to shower every morning and after any activity where I sweat at all. And yes, I will shower as part of my morning routine even if I am waking up to go do a hike or something, and yes, I will shower after the hike as well. I will fixate on the feeling of dirt and grime on my skin if I don't.

  • AcidCommunist [he/him/they/them]
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    4 months ago

    I only wear "barefoot shoes" because normal shoes don't feel comfortable to me anymore and normal shoes make my back hurt. I am vegan because i am uncomfortable with the idea of eating once sentient things.

  • homhom9000 [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    I share so many quirks with a lot of y'all. I like that it feels less like some thing my brain is making up and more like a reality we all live.

    • I need to have my right ear covered when I sleep and the covers need to be snug over me or else I'm uncomfortable.
    • (adding on) I do not like different food taste mixing. Food should either be sweet or savory but not both.
      • homhom9000 [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        I'm not alone! I shared a bed with a friend once and did my usal cover the whole body and ears thing, and they mentioned they never saw that before. It made me more conscious of my quirks.

        • Dꫀꪑꪮꪀᥴ᥅ꪖᥴꪗ@lemmygrad.ml
          hexagon
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          4 months ago

          I usually have no clue something I do is odd until someone picks on me and I enjoy other people being more like me. I swear I lived in a cult of sparkling water at some poitnt of my life and I cannot drink it. Ugh.

  • kleeon [he/him, he/him]
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    4 months ago

    just some random stuff off the top of my head:

    • I don't eat that black tip of a banana.
    • I can't drink tap water.
    • I don't like carbonated drinks and can't stand sparkling water.
    • I can't wear certain type of rough synthetic fabric. For some reason it feels incredibly unpleasant to the touch. Don't know what it's called, but usually they make waterproof coats out of it.
    • I wash my hands way too often.

    pretty sure I have OCD so there are a billion tiny things I can list

  • idkmybffjoeysteel [he/him]
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    4 months ago

    I can't wear shoes without socks because I hate having sweaty feet but I am in a battle against time to get them off as soon as possible any time I get in the house.

    I may just hate my current socks though.

  • Cromalin [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    i know i have more but i can only think of a few rn. i cannot eat cereal, and i can't drink any carbonated beverages. i can only rarely eat food that has touched each other and i just can't eat anything that has a certain strain of crunchy or leafy vegetables inside it (like, i need to request all lettuce, onions, etc are removed from every sandwich whenever i ever eat out)