If your crush wouldn’t be into you when you’re at peace with yourself, they’re not worth it
Moreover, even if you try and 'make yourself be at peace' while trying to conform to what your crush likes, you'll eventually end up resentful
Either loathing yourself for trying to be who you are not, or resenting your other for not liking you for 'who you are'
Or both
Really, just be yourself comrade. It's easier and better for you
because trans bodies are seen as "gross" and "not cis people's type."
Fuck that, be yourself and those with taste will appreciate you.
Secret third option: Be at peace with yourself, be who you want to be and be surprised with who you attract. Why would you want to be with someone who thinks trans people are gross anyway??
Do the right option and date other LGBT people. Seems like the best option. From a long haired guy currently hitting the gym (well calisthenics at home).
or just embrace t4t (or queer-only dating idk what applies better here)