if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have
same goes double for the word guy.
Hawaiian surfers are absolute chads, the surfers in california just need some aloha spirit beat into their bones
I wouldn't know, I've never been to any US state.
Good to know if I'm ever near Hawaii though.
Hawaii would be so awesome if we could kick out the Mormons and millionaires