This is my other cat, the one I mentioned got adopted from a shelter a few months back, and that has a heart murmur.
In this picture, she's sitting in a pan, in the kitchen, having found a new spot that she likes to curl up in.
I think that she's a really, really cute cat, and I love her.
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I would’ve been way more hesitant to write off wearing women’s clothing if I’d known just how much of it there is. I was so used to my biggest clothing choices being “short or long sleeves” or “buttons or no buttons”. If you’d have told me 5 years ago I’d be trying to match my socks with my bottoms I’d have just been confused as to what that even meant (socks are either black of white, you see, there is nothing to match)
odd socks gang wya
matching socks with pants is a common thing guys do too though... At least guys who care about their outfit.
In terms of men’s clothes, I basically never evolved beyond my high schooler lack of fashion sense for trans reasons. I have guy friends who match their socks to their outfits, but frankly doing so in men’s clothes would just make me depressed. I don’t get it and I probably never will get it for trans reasons.
I absolutely love having the same experience as another trans person but from the other direction. I remember so clearly having an impossible time finding clothes in middle school. All I wanted was a solid color t-shirt and some jeans that actually fucking fit me, but neither of these was ever going to happen in the girl's section. Starting to buy guy clothes has been the best, because it's all solid t's and jeans that fit.
I'm really glad you're having a good time exploring the wacky world of girl clothes! It was very much not the place for me, but I'm glad it is for you! Being trans is kind of neat sometimes
It’s good to know that others enjoy the simplicity of it. Having to learn the basics of vanity sizing has made me understand the appreciation a bit lol