Ok, at risk at sounding like a boomer, let me preface by mentioning a couple of things: I am in my mid 30's, and I have always hated cell phones. I hated them when they first came out, I hate them now, and I will always hate them into the future. I hate the expectation that I should be available all of the time, and I haven't owned one for about a decade.
With that out of the way ...
I was at a (Canadian) Thanksgiving dinner last night. My friend had prepared a very nice dinner for all of us, and a few people brought their own offerings. They were all from a political group that is active on a local campus, so a couple of the people that attended were pretty young.
They spent about half the night staring into their cell phones, at the dinner table where our host had spent hours preparing a nice meal for all of us.
Is this considered "normal" now? I was always under the impression that cell phones should not be used at the dinner table, let alone at a fucking Thanksgiving meal. This is not behaviour that I would allow from my child let alone a fully grown adult.
Am I just old now, and is this now acceptable? Am I just being an old curmudgeon?
social interaction stresses some people out and they use their phones to escape for a bit. I try to understand that and be tolerant, just making an effort to direct the conversation towards them and their interests periodically.
I have to go to a Halloween party that's only going to have 8 people there and I'm going to feel so fucking awkward and anxious all night and it's going to be a huge struggle to not get on my phone to avoid conversation. I really don't want to go but my partner is like "you're going" because except for one of the hosts her friends haven't met me and joke that I'm a multi-year ruse/nonexistent boyfriend
I'd be a little less anxious if I weren't currently unemployed because idk how I'm going to respond if that comes up, since she doesn't want me to tell anyone because "she'll get shit for it" but i'm a bad liar
You're a social media personality on a niche leftist website.
It's unlikely to. I actually really like my job and I like talking about it but when I try to bring it up people are visibly disinterested lol.
Don't worry about it :shrug-outta-hecks:
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Yeah, this is it for me. And I hate doing it because I know it can be perceived as being rude, but I just can't help it:ohnoes: