and is going on a date with someone else tonight

we were together for 4 years

e: my moms bf broke up with her yesterday, apparently. anyone else getting hit with insanely bad karma rn?

feels pretty fucking bad ngl

  • FoolishFool [she/her]
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    edit-2
    1 year ago

    Unfortunately kinda sounds like she might have been cheating if she had a new date set up that quickly.

    I'm sorry dude. It hurts now, but it's for the best in the long run. Better to find out her true nature now than even more years down the road. Hopefully you'll find someone better and more faithful.

    • fuckmyphonefuckingsu [comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      I don't think she was cheating, but our relationship was riddled with asymmetries. I knew she was bi and wanted to be closer to this woman she had been in kind of a tumultuous but brief relationship with in the past. I trusted her, I told her I wanted her to be happy and feel fulfilled, and so if she wanted to be ENM and be intimate with this woman, I supported her 100%. In the 4 years we dated, she never even introduced me to this person (lmao). I actually can't believe how stupid all of this feels now. I just thought I was doing the right thing for her, now I just feel like a chump.

      This isn't even the fucking person she's going on a date with right now, btw, who is apparently some guy she met on Hinge last week. Like... god fucking damn.