So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.
I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.
To be totally real, unless they've got an advertising network at their beck and call, it's pretty unlikely many people would see it or anything would come of it. But on the offhand it becomes popular you gotta be sure you're okay with it being out there. That's priority 1. You also gotta be sure that you're okay if this turns out to just be a one video thing for her to build up a portfolio. Might wanna think contract. Not sure what the kids do nowadays.
But, if you do decide to go for it, have fun with it, don't be afraid to laugh and joke with each other. Most people either assume that all they have to do is fuck and tape it and you end up with some vid of two people laying on top of each other sweating, or some make a huge performance and the whole thing feels fake and kinda cringy. Two (or more) people actually enjoying each other is sexy. Treat it like a threesome with the camera as your third; You don't have to focus on what the audience wants entirely, but you don't want them to feel left out.
Treat it like a cuckold scene and the camera is sitting there quietly watching you fuck its girlfriend
Performance anxiety solved 😎
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(Not really tho lol)
If that's the niche they're going for...💁♂️
Wow my dude this was great advice all around!! Your definitely right probably won't be seen by many and even if it is now thinking about it I don't really mind I'm still pretty young too. And reading that second paragraph makes feel much more relaxed . Your right to put it simply I should just go with the flow not build it up even if it doesn't go totally smoothly I'd regret not taking the chance even more. (And you are definitely right when I have watched amateur porn it's always better when you can see some real mutual affection/attraction)
I didn't have any expectations but again genuinely helped put my mind at ease. Thanks yo!
Oh, and if y'all do wanna kinda hide your faces until you're sure about it, those lacy masks are pretty hot. And there's plenty of other themes (like superheros or something) that can hide your face without people feeling like they're about to watch :ira: unless that's your thing.😉
Haha well somebody's clearly been around the block 😆! Honestly masks can be hot though ,maybe I'll ask and see if I can be spiderman masked lol .
When I was younger I ran a bunch of small feeder sites for bigger affiliates and made a couple vids that floated around for a while. Thought about dipping my toe in the OF water, but then covid happened and I think I'm just gonna work on my tan for a bit.
I've got a full body spiderman from aliexpress that may have featured in some of my plans.
Welcome, good luck with it all!