So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.

I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.

  • 2Password2Remember [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    I'm stoned rn so take this w a grain of salt but I feel like starting/contributing to an only fans with someone you barely know CANNOT be a good idea

    Death to America

    • TheLegendaryCarrot23 [he/him]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      Hi, stoned too my friend ,and firstly inshallah Death To America. smoking green too and sipping a 40(not reading today lol) .

      FAIR , but we've talked for so long , despite the Onlyfans thing seems like a catch, independent, attractive, freakin Columbian :hyperflush: , seems genuinely kinda innocent, i have my second guesses but chief it's a dessert out here how could I atleast not try lmao.

      • 2Password2Remember [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        I'm not saying don't do it. I'm just saying get to know her a bit better. a month just feels super fast to me to take that kind of plunge

        also it's not a desert out there. if this attractive, independent Columbian woman wants you, there are also plenty of women who will want you. believe in yourself. cringe and cliche but important nonetheless

        Death to America

        • TheLegendaryCarrot23 [he/him]
          hexagon
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          1 year ago

          Thanks boss. Look you may be right but I personally feel like a month is long enough, like I've had casual sex with people I've known much less(not bragging it's often meh). and your totally right shouldn't pretend like there isn't a sea full of fish, and I go for cis an trans too so hey that's numbers lol. I'm gonna be very casual bout this thing with this person and I do take your advice to heart.

          Inshallah Death To America.