So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.
I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.
for my two cents, I'd be like 'fuck it, we ball' if I wasn't opposed to the idea and I wanted to get a :volcel-police: bounty anyway. That way I see if I just couldn't fucking stand having to perform for a camera or publishing or something. If they insisted that it keep happening, that's the point I would start talking about what the relationship looks like and having contracts. I've never given much weight to the idea that you wait to :volcel-judge: to have a more serious relationship, nor have I been in a serious relationship in a while lmao. You could also be like "I want to do it without the camera first." since you professed it was going in that direction anyway.
All solid advice . Think I'm going "beast mode yolo" on this one as the kids say lol.
Good point too like the idea of actually performing with sex is wierd to me too. She did say we'd watch it back after and see what it's like so I'm hoping we both actually new to this 😅.
But so right if does go longer I think I'll like draw a line and see if it's make or break, but who knows maybe it'll just be cool and I'm down to do it more(doubt that).
And yeah atleast with for the start no camera lol. I'm still anxious but some folks here who aren't just trying to dunk eased my mind .
Hey ya only live once (possibly , although maybe there's reincarnation who knows :P).