So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.

I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.

  • TheBeatles [any]
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    2 years ago

    so you actually can't appear on someone else's onlyfans page unless you have your own OF page, so you'd have to sign up as a creator and go through their verification process as well.

    anyway it's weird that she would ask this if you haven't even had sex with her yet. and if she wants to start an OF why not start out with nudes or solo stuff before asking someone you barely know to star in a sex tape with you?

    also she's asking you for unpaid labor, though I seriously doubt she will make much money from this considering how poorly thought-out it seems. of course you'd be getting paid in sex, but then the question is whether you're willing to do sex work just to get laid

    maybe try and see if she wants to have sex without the cameras first, and see where it goes from there

    • TheLegendaryCarrot23 [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      I can't find anything saying I need to start an account myself to be in someone else's video but I only did a cursory Google search, didn't even go through onlyfans page rules . I know that's more strict now though with the pornhub ruling with Id tho . Could you point me to that and what it entails ? Other people's vids seem to star anonymous people all the time.

      And honestly it's not that wierd , atleast maybe to me . I've hooked up with other people on lighter circumstances and knowing less about them then this person . And hey maybe she's being honest when she's says she wants to watch a tape made with someone, and of course I'm gonna take it relatively slow and steady .

      Lastly the whole "unpaid labor" thing doesn't bother me at all lol, really I'm not the catch in this one ha. And am I "willing to do sex work just to get laid?" Brother I've worked more then this to get laid hell yeah I am 😅.

      • TheBeatles [any]
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        2 years ago

        okay so apparently you don't necessarily have to be a creator, but if you're not then OF might request documents verifying your ID and take down the video if you don't

        this is the text from onlyfans ToS (section 11a under "Terms of Use for Creators")

        If you upload Content to your Creator account which shows anyone else other than or in addition to you (even if that person cannot be identified from the Content) ("Co-Authored Content"), you warrant (which means you make a legally enforceable promise to us) that each individual shown in any Co-Authored Content uploaded to your account is i) a Creator on OnlyFans; or ii) a consenting adult, and that you have verified the identity and age of each such individual and will provide supporting documents as we may request in our discretion.

        • TheLegendaryCarrot23 [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          Hell yeah dude glad we clarified this lol . Nothing unreasonable so good to go all in the clear :07: