Based off Hakim’s recommendation I just watched “Kidnapping, Caucasian style” it was wonderful. Musical numbers, Russian three stooges, and wonderful jokes like an anthropologist getting out of a drunk and disorderly because he studying toasts so it’s an industrial accident not a crime.
It has a mild CW: the kidnapping refers to bride kidnapping but it’s portrayed as criminal and corrupt. Ultimately there’s a happy ending, but thought I’d warn just in case.
it declined greatly during soviet times, but has been occurring more in modern times after it was romanticized in the media. some kidnappings like you describe, and others are actually coercive, where the screaming or crying woman will be isolated in a building where the groom's female relatives will persuade them until she agrees to marry him.