How do you feel when a guy is kind of clingy and possesive? I'm the jealous type and I get suspicious and anxious women im dating or want to date don't message or text me back right away.

I often wonder if I have some type of borderline personality disorder, im so immediately afraid of abandonment. Like immediately I assume the worst if I'm not messaged or texted back right away.

Erroneous and somewhat misogynistic thought often says that women are the ones who are clingy, im here to tell you this is not the case lol. I'm just as clingy and workable moreso than any women I've me

I've gotten some good advice in other threads I've made, but I'll be more specific here.

  • RNAi [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    Don't be clingy and possesive, simple as

    • space_comrade [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      You're not being funny with this, you just come across as an asshole.

      • fratsarerats [none/use name]
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        2 years ago

        "Just be confident bro!" "Don't worry just be yourself bro!"

        It's frustrating, because when someone tries to point out that men need dating advice, you're hit with "oh that's not a thing just be normal." Seeing this in a leftist space (of all places) is super discouraging.

        • FearsomeJoeandmac [he/him, he/him]
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          2 years ago

          Yeah I came here asking for specific help to make my relationships last longer and be more chill for both myself and the woman I happen to be seeing.

          Short little quips aren't exactly helpful In a thread where I wanted serious advice.

        • space_comrade [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          "Hey mentally ill person, have you considered just not being mentally ill?"

          If you don't have anything to contribute with just shut the fuck up please.